Break Free from the Rut (in three simple steps)

How to get out of a rut Repeating the same day over and over again, without making real progress can become a rut. Same morning feeling, same afternoon grit, same night time hole. If you feel like everyday is groundhog day, and you want to get ahead or get that spark back...here are three things … Continue reading Break Free from the Rut (in three simple steps)

The 3 Masks of Fear

Fear is a trickster! It wears many different masks, making it hard to detect. When fear goes unnoticed, it can seep into life and alter the way that you feel, think, and choose without you even realizing it. This can cause problems in your relationships, for your inner peace, and the kind of life you … Continue reading The 3 Masks of Fear

Green Light Life

If you are coping with a loss, transition, or unexpected changes - emotional healing and skills training can give you the tools you need to secure a permanent feeling of safety inside. Unexpected “bad” surprises can rock our sense of certainty, safety, and security. It’s common to reach for something certain when life around us … Continue reading Green Light Life

You Can Heal Your Fear, Now.

Although fear can feel like an indestructible force, overcoming fear is easier than you think. We can feel very vulnerable when we have to respond to a situation, and feel unable to do so. Sensing our own vulnerability, can activate an intense fear. Fear can have a very powerful effect, as the instinct to survive! … Continue reading You Can Heal Your Fear, Now.

How to Love Yourself (Is self-love the answer?)

What I have found over and over again while helping people to recover from childhood abuse, symptoms of depression, feelings of emptiness, guilt, shame, and unresolved anxiety... is that we expect ourselves to know. We expect ourselves to know how to be happy, we expect ourselves to know how to love ourselves, and we expect … Continue reading How to Love Yourself (Is self-love the answer?)

Why You Feel Unhappy

There are some basic rules for nurturing happiness in your life. We break almost all of them everyday, and often unconsciously. Getting conscious of them will help you to take control and reclaim a naturally happy life. Here they are... We Doubt Our "Goodness" Many of us have a silent tape that plays out in … Continue reading Why You Feel Unhappy

When Your Ego Takes Over

When anger and fear are flaring up it can be hard to stay balanced. Losing your cool can happen when your ego is threatened. This often happens when you are facing values disagreements. If this causes you to act up in away that you regret later, but struggle to control yourself in the moment, there … Continue reading When Your Ego Takes Over

I Don’t Belong(and how to heal)

It's a difficult thing to feel out of place. The glass wall between you and everyone else can be torture when you're on one side trying to be seen, understood, and connect. If you are extra-sensory you may struggle even more to feel your true self, and this adds to feeling different. Many of us … Continue reading I Don’t Belong(and how to heal)

Back to Basics – How to Deal with a Life Crisis

Any kind of life crisis can be an overwhelming and disorienting experience. When crisis occurs, it's time to get back to basics. Whether the crisis is happening inside (like identity, health, trauma, existential) or on the outside (financial, loss, unexpected surprises) - what matters most during these times is what you do to arm yourself. … Continue reading Back to Basics – How to Deal with a Life Crisis

How to Find Your Life Purpose

How to Find your Life Purpose Who did you want to be when you were 7 years old? As babies, we are getting used to being in a body. As toddlers we've mostly figured that part out, and have evolved into the next stage of learning: mastering emotion (More about Emotion, what is Emotion). We … Continue reading How to Find Your Life Purpose