HEAL THE WOUNDED INNER CHILD

Being Human is not easy! Especially as children. The heart can be wounded or neglected, and as a result we develop defences to protect ourselves from future pain. Although it serves us to do this in the moment, over time we lose connection with our core being, feel lost without its guidance and empty without … Continue reading HEAL THE WOUNDED INNER CHILD

Shielding Your Energy (Are you an empath?)

Being an empath is both a gift and a curse. Feeling helpless to the negative energies around you is never fun, while feeling oneness is a gift. You can trust yourself that you are feeling the energies around you, so don't go into self-doubt, and there are things you can do to make life easier … Continue reading Shielding Your Energy (Are you an empath?)

Beware the Spiritual Narcissist (Spiritual Bypass – The Spiritual Narcissist’s Best Friend)

Spiritual Bypass Many spiritual principles provide us with ways to navigate life in a compassionate and progressive way. There are times however when these spiritual laws interfere with healing, and can actually be harmful. This is called spiritual bypass. Spiritual bypass is the use of spiritual ideals and practices to sidestep emotional pain or painful … Continue reading Beware the Spiritual Narcissist (Spiritual Bypass – The Spiritual Narcissist’s Best Friend)

Are You an Empath? How to Create Healthy Boundaries (for Empaths)

Your Vision Matters If you are an empath, chances are that you intuitively know what's best for you. This ability enables you to know your true path in life. However, maintaining course can be a challenge when you struggle to hold your ground against the emotional needs of others. Empaths are naturally sensitive to the … Continue reading Are You an Empath? How to Create Healthy Boundaries (for Empaths)

PORTRAIT OF AN INNER CHILD

They were on their way to the park, and waiting to cross the road. Beep. Beep. Beep - Tock! Green light. Mum held onto Marelise's hand very tightly. Too tightly. She walked briskly, pulling at Marelise's arm as they made their way to the other side of the road. The day before, Marelise and her … Continue reading PORTRAIT OF AN INNER CHILD

FEELING UNWANTED

You look for the reason, but can't find the problem... If you've ever felt unwanted, and are tired of friends and family telling you that "it's all in your head," but you can't change your mind, the problem is not what you think. This is the thing about having a subconscious! We know how we … Continue reading FEELING UNWANTED

HEALTHY ARGUMENTS & THE ENLIGHTENED COUPLE

HAVING GOOD DISAGREEMENTS Disagreement is part of safe and healthy relationships. Many people worry that conflict is a sign of relationship failure. Relationships break down when communication doesn't happen. It's not about the fact that you disagree, it's about how to argue. Thinking about how to have healthy arguments is important, because this can make or … Continue reading HEALTHY ARGUMENTS & THE ENLIGHTENED COUPLE

WHY IT’S SCARY AND HOW TO CHANGE

When your circumstances don't match your expectations, you want to know how to change. Whether we are working to change our relationship with ourselves, with others, or even our careers - the fear of change can be the thing that stops us from making it. WHEN THE EGO'S SURVIVAL SABOTAGES YOUR SUCCESS The ego is … Continue reading WHY IT’S SCARY AND HOW TO CHANGE

STRONG SELF IS AN AUTHENTIC SELF

Being strong is easier when you know who you are. That's because you know who you're standing up for! There is no right or wrong way of being, but there is your way of being. We were most aware of our authentic selves and potential as children. Unfortunately, there are many reasons why we have … Continue reading STRONG SELF IS AN AUTHENTIC SELF

HOW TO BE ASSERTIVE IF YOU ARE AFRAID

STRATEGIES WON'T WORK IF YOU ARE IN FEAR If you've struggled with assertiveness, you'll know that becoming assertive is harder than learning a few skills and practicing saying no to a mirror.  There are powerful reasons why you feel unsafe to speak your voice. When 'strategies' don't work, it means that you are stuck in … Continue reading HOW TO BE ASSERTIVE IF YOU ARE AFRAID